What is a Flower Girl?
Posted on: September 13, 2011
A flower girl is a young girl who carries flowers in a procession. Most people associate flower girls specifically with weddings, although technically they can appear in a variety of processions and events, and they are sometimes seen at parades for beauty queens or other community celebrities.
A flower girl is usually under 10, because she is meant to symbolize childhood and youth, and she directly precedes the person being honoured by the procession; in the case of a wedding, this means that the flower girl walks ahead of the bride. Flower girls typically wear simple white dresses to accentuate their youth, although they may wear coloured sashes or other decorations to coordinate with the rest of the procession.
Some flower girls simply carry flowers, while others distribute flowers to the crowd and the observers. In weddings, it is traditional for flower girls to scatter flowers and petals down the aisle, so that the bride walks along a carpet of flowers. Often, flowers with a symbolic meaning and a pleasant scent such as roses are chosen for the flower girl.
When women are thinking about the members of their wedding party, they generally pick the flower girl from among their young relatives, or the children of friends. Lots of flower girls are perfectly acceptable, for brides who want to honour several young friends, and in very formal weddings, multiple flower girls are actually quite common. As a general rule, the bride picks out the flower girl's dress, and the girl's parents are expected to pay for the dress and any accessories such as a basket for carrying the flowers.
Guests at a wedding often view the flower girl as simply cute, preferring not to delve into the more ancient symbolic meaning of the flower girl. Flower girls are often big hits at weddings, and because people tend to be indulgent around young children, it's difficult for a flower girl to make a mistake. However, brides may want to think about designating a bridesmaid to be the flower girl's friend in the wedding party, to ensure that the flower girl's dress and hair are in order and to remind her to use the restroom before the ceremony starts.
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